STOP HAVING SET QUALIFICATIONS FOR A BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND. BEING A LOVER IS NOT A FUCKING JOB, AND YOU’RE NOT HIRING A FUCKING EMPLOYEE. AND YES, THEY WILL MAKE MISTAKES. YES, THEY WILL BE DIFFERENT FROM WHAT YOU EXPECTED. THEY'RE HUMAN, AND THEY HAVE NO FUCKING CLUE WHAT THEY'RE DOING. BUT THEY LOVE YOU, AND THEY LOVE EVERY MINUTE OF YOU. SO PLEASE, GIVE THEM A CHANCE.