" Have you ever been in a relationship that was just based on games? Like he won't text you unless you text first, or if you don't text him for a while, he texts you just to make sure you still care. Have you ever been in a relationship where it is just a constant mindfuck? As in he says "I love you" then a second later, he turns around and acts cold. What is this about?! Whenever I am in a relationship, I hate playing games. I like to be as honest as possible - I am talking about being honest with feelings.